Love or something like that

One of My friend told me since I have written quite a few thing about the four letter word,why I dont write about another four letter word i.e Love. I tell her, to write something about this complicated issue, you should have at least experienced it. Or should have gone through the process. She tells me that whose write about the crime, do they actually committ those. Huummm.. Her way of reasoning is immpecalble.So,I am here in the balcony and a notepad writing on this topic.
Times have surely changed. Earlier the people use to write their thoughts with the pen and a book in front of them.Huummm... Thanks to the Microsoft We have word and notepad.
Now back to the main topic..
There is someone on the front door. I go and open the door. Its the house maid. My neighbour walks in front of our main door. She is really something. Hot southern spice. I wait a little longer near the door, until she takes the lift down.
Main topic......
Today the weather is really good. Its really nice slow breeze blowing around. Vizag has a much better and salubrious climate than Poona.. I think I should plan to go the beach this evening...
Aahhh...
Return return....
But this evening we are planning to go Kailashgiri. Its a near by hill top area with a panaromic view of whole Vizag. Yup, thats the final plan.
Uuff.. I have to write something about this topic. Lets not digress to some other topic..Too complicated a issue to write... Why dont I copy some of the forward messages I have and tell my dear friend that I wrote it. But the problem with the forwards is that its not only you who receive them.
Huummm...
Is love something that is displayed in our Hindi Cinema, where the hero comes out with the perfect line. And he is present at the right place and the right moment. So, when the two person meets, there is music at the back ground. I guess, thats far fetched from the reality..

I think love is the willing ness to accomodate the other person in your life. (This is the good one [:)]...). Like we accomodate our parents,siblings and dear friends. Its the willingness by a person to let the other person be a part of his or her life...Most of the problems strat or end depending upon how the individual accomodate the other person in their life. And to use a chemical engineering slang term, if the bonding doesnt take place properly, it will break when a little outside pressure or heat is applied.Thus, when this bonding is pushed through the outside characteristics like the beauty of an individual or wealthiness of an individual, it will not withstand the force of the time. It will be so fragile that it will break when a little pressure is applied.I think this is true for any realtionship.

And from where does the perfect line comes from?? From where does the perfect situation comes from??? It doesnt come in the real life. I think the presence of the other person makes the words or situation perfect. Even when you say something in a clumsy way and in the crowded bus, its the presence of the other person who makes the situation and the line perfect.

Coming up.....

All my previous blogs were written in the mood or in the situation I was at that moment. But the next two blogs, I am writing from last one week. I have named them as
1. Dinner
2. Love or something like that..

It will be interesting for me too to know what shape they take..

For those who happen to read this blog and happen to be interested in those subject, look out for this space...

Dibert of the day

Why????

Why do people behave so differntly in different group of people and in different situation?? Why their behaviour become so erratic, so that it becomes difficult to predict what they are going to say or how they are going to behave in that situation. Complexity increases when they behave differntly in the same situation at two differnt times...
Obviously, they are in differnt moods. But does that make them to behave so erratically, so drastically different????
The next question comes how to respond to such type of person?? And will not that respond take the form of altercation and finally becomes an ego problem?? And will not all the previous issues which were deeply buried will get surfaced at this altercation?? And what about the realtionship between the two person involved??? I cant say about all the previous questions but for the last one, it will depend upon how big are the egoes of the persons involved. Settling of the dust will be directly proportional to the egoes of the person involved..
But then wont keeping mum will avoid all the above turmoil??? Wont that will save your whole day or weeks altogether..
Huummmm....
But then wont you will be taken for granted??? Wont the other person belive that you are the weaker side????
I dont know how Gandhiji used silence to his advantage.
Huuummmm...

Thought of the day

Positive photos are developed from negatives in a dark room. So if you find yourself lonely and in the dark, understand that GOD is working on a beautiful picture!

What a Shame???

Circa April--A few hunderd students protesting near Azad Maiden in mumbai are beaten ruthlessly. Tear gas and fire water is thrown on the peaceful protest rally in Delhi.Circa July--Some thing happens to a statue which till now was dilapidating in shivaji park in mumbai and the whole mumbai is brought to ransom by Shiv Sena..
In the first case the cause is reservation. Nehruji envisaged the importance of education and build IITs whom he called as temple of education. After 58 years and the pain of innumberable students and professors we have a brand name as IIT. This is power of Vision of one person before 58 years. Now we have a politician who for the sake of harnessing the votes of certain section of people is going to destroy all that has achieved in last 58 years. What a vision and petty politics???Innumberable students goes on hunger strikes. Many hospitals are closed in protest. Nothing happens after weeks of protest.
In the second case, a statue which nobody thought existed is suddenly brought to limelight. Issue was tha it was desecrated.Ok.. But was it a statue of a freedom fighter? No.. Was it a statue of any diety belonging to a particular religion? No.. Whos statue it was?? It was a statue of the wife of a famous politician in maharashtra.. What happens next???Buses are torched, trains are blocked, government property is ransacked, bandhs are called in different parts of maharashtra.
Its very sad that we Indians waste our energy on such pitty issues. That very well explains why a country of more than 1 billion cant win one gold medal in olympics, cant have 12 good foot ball players. Whats more humilation when Sania goes in 2 second round of wimbeldon and the whole nation reacts in a way that she has won wimbeldon.
It has to be again vision of one person. And we have to wait again for 58 years till we have our brand in tennis or foot ball or for that matter any other sport..
But even after that it will be vision of one person who will think of reservation in that field too....

A typical Dilbert reply in a very typical dilbert situation.

Uncertanity

I was thinking about this word for quite some days now. And I have heard 'Life mein thodi clarity hone chahiye' twice in last one week.But, I guess clarity comes only when one know what he wants from every situation. There is puprpose for every activity we do. Only its pupose should be clear. But thats the most difficult thing to know. Most of the time, at most of the places that purpose or clarity doesnt exists. But then the obvious second question comes that do one need the kind of clarity that we are talking here. DOesnt that uncertanity gives the suprises, the thrill in life??? I think thats what they call it as "Life".