Thursday, October 26, 2006
Trust
What makes two people from entire different back ground make a decision to spend their life togethere???
Ok.. its a indian tradition..
Ok.. Your parents wanted to be that way..
Ok.. You didnt want to heart your paretns feeling..
Ok.. Your parents have better understanding of finding a match for you..
Ok.. it has worked for your parents and it will work for you too..
Ok..ok.. ok...
There are so many reason we can find. Different people will have their own reason.
Next question comes what will make that realtion to start and sustain????
Only thing that comes to my mind is the trust. Totally.. Unconditionally...
Some would disagree and say that its love.. But then it is the thing that can only be experienced and felt and cannot be expressed. And it composed of so many factors.A mathematical equation can be formed with love as a dependent variable and trust,caring,etc as independent variables.But for the relationship to begin and suatain the foundation has to be trust nad only trust.
Ok.. its a indian tradition..
Ok.. Your parents wanted to be that way..
Ok.. You didnt want to heart your paretns feeling..
Ok.. Your parents have better understanding of finding a match for you..
Ok.. it has worked for your parents and it will work for you too..
Ok..ok.. ok...
There are so many reason we can find. Different people will have their own reason.
Next question comes what will make that realtion to start and sustain????
Only thing that comes to my mind is the trust. Totally.. Unconditionally...
Some would disagree and say that its love.. But then it is the thing that can only be experienced and felt and cannot be expressed. And it composed of so many factors.A mathematical equation can be formed with love as a dependent variable and trust,caring,etc as independent variables.But for the relationship to begin and suatain the foundation has to be trust nad only trust.
Ahmedabad
My work takes me to places where normally I would never visit those places. Different places means different people with different attitude and different views on the same subject.
I was in Ahmedabad recently. I was interacting with the mangerial level person. The persons involved were all engineers of differrent branches and were working in the company for quite some time now. As it happened one day, our converstion led to the riots in Ahmedabad in 2002. As soon as this conversation started, one person from the group declared that he is the ardent follower of Mr.Modi. Other agreed to his comment. He said in a way to tell me that dare I speak anything against Mr.Modi.He told that it was right what happened in Gujrat. That was the normal couse of action after what happened in Godhra. He went ahead to add that how minority group have a plan by which they kind of try to capture the city. And by destroying their properties they haven been taught a lesson and they are sent 10 years back in time.I was amazed by the way he narrated me all this and other supported him. I was wondering that I am talking to some very educated people and people of great respect in the company. If these people are having this views what about the common people in the city.And what made the venom to spread so dip in the mind of the people?????It surely is the bad time to be in the minority group and placed in such city....
I was in Ahmedabad recently. I was interacting with the mangerial level person. The persons involved were all engineers of differrent branches and were working in the company for quite some time now. As it happened one day, our converstion led to the riots in Ahmedabad in 2002. As soon as this conversation started, one person from the group declared that he is the ardent follower of Mr.Modi. Other agreed to his comment. He said in a way to tell me that dare I speak anything against Mr.Modi.He told that it was right what happened in Gujrat. That was the normal couse of action after what happened in Godhra. He went ahead to add that how minority group have a plan by which they kind of try to capture the city. And by destroying their properties they haven been taught a lesson and they are sent 10 years back in time.I was amazed by the way he narrated me all this and other supported him. I was wondering that I am talking to some very educated people and people of great respect in the company. If these people are having this views what about the common people in the city.And what made the venom to spread so dip in the mind of the people?????It surely is the bad time to be in the minority group and placed in such city....
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